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Posts from April 2016

Still On Premarital Relationships

At the teenage level, parents should not be shy to teach the children the severity of pre-marital relationship. You should make them understand that that pre-marital relationships are like the extra-marital relationships, or what is commonly known as adultery or ‘an affair’. It ruins the community by corrupting the people. It unleashes base desires that, once allowed free-reign, will destroy families. There…

General Islamic Principles: Sexual Desires!

Dear brothers, Know that Islam encompasses all aspects of life and as Muslim we only need to go towards the right means as regards fulfilling our sexual urge. Many society or parents do not provide the right means to fulfil sexual urge (marriage) and even if we try it ourselves they create hurdles. Consequently the society forced us to go towards the…

How To Help Your Child To Be Chaste

The following are few beneficial points on how to help your child to be chaste 1. Tell him/her not to freely mix with the opposite sex. 2. Tell him/her to lower his/her gaze and not to look at the opposite sex. This is done by lowering or averting their eyes as Allah tells us: “Tell the believing men to lower their gaze…

CAN A MAN BEAT HIS WIFE?

Rafeeqee Islamic Mentoring (www.Rafeeqee.com) Q: Can A Man Beat His Wife? To be honest i was really astonished to read how you do answer all the questions cleverly. I really want to know more about Islam but every time I know something new, I get suspicious about it Bravely, I would like to know if it is correct that the Coran permits…

General Islamic Principles: Please Note!

In Islaam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. You are either married or you are not. This is what we Muslim children should know at the early stage. Parents should not wait for their children to come to them when they are teenagers to ask about girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. At this late stage, even if we forbid them to have…

Privacy With The Opposite Sex

Brothers and sisters in Islaam, Allaah says in the noble Qur’aan: “O you who believe! Follow not the footsteps of Shaytaan (satan). And whosoever follows the footsteps of Satan, then verily he commands what is indecent and wrong.” [Qur’aan 24:21] One of the Satan’s means to tempt people into sin, is privacy with non-mahram women/men, for this reason, being in privacy with…